They really do change everything…

Welcome to Mom-Monday. I’m glad you’re here.

I had fun celebrating Mother’s Day this weekend and I hope you did too! In the spirit of continuing to celebrate all the ways kids touch our lives, I’m putting up the post below (originally published 2010). 

How have kids changed your world? Leave a comment and share. I love hearing from you!


“Children change everything.”

I was at the gym the other day, working out and reading Five-Star Families by Carol Kuykendall, when that line struck me. I had to look away from the book for a minute to keep from getting teary-eyed.

Maybe it’s the fact that I’ve been doing some reflecting lately.

Or maybe I’m feeling sentimental because this is the month I sit down and write each of my kids a letter, seal it, and put it in a box for them for when they are older.

Whatever the reason, that line in the book choked me up. And I spent the rest of my workout marveling at just how much they do change everything…

You have kids and suddenly life is different.

You still plan what you want to get accomplished each day, but you’re more flexible now because you have to be.

You still have a schedule. It just includes things like soccer games and swim meets and homework.

You still carry a purse, only now it’s converted into a grab-bag full of hand sanitizer, baby wipes, snacks and other things that aren’t even yours.

You still get together with your friends, only now you talk about things like how to potty train, or how to get your picky eaters to try new foods, or how to make it through the terrible twos and threes.

You still sleep, only less.

You still go on trips, only now you almost have to rent a U-Haul to carry the booster seats and portable cribs and other stuff you’ve acquired.

You still notice the mom at the grocery store whose toddler is throwing a temper tantrum, only now you notice with compassion and empathy, not judgment.

You still dream of what you want to do with your life, but now your dreams are more meaningful because they include thoughts about your kids and the legacy you’ll leave.

You still play, only it’s more fun.

You still feel for the child who is hungry, hurting, or sick, only now you step in and help when you can, because you imagine what if that child was yours.

You still care about the world, only with more passion because your kids and grandkids will be living in it after you’re gone.

You still hope, only brighter.

You still pray, only more fervently.

And you still love…

only bigger. :)


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  1. This was a beautiful post, and it's so true. Children do change everything, and they even change you as a person, when you become a mother.

  2. The marriage of my oldest son really contrast what my life was like before children! It amazes me how much I can fit in a day – how big my 24 hours is compared to what I could fit in it before.Happy Day After Mother's Day:)

  3. You and your Mother's are beautiful. The luncheon looks so nice. Wishing you a wonderful day, even if it is LATE. :)

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